Soulmates, Cellmates, and Everyone In Between
If spring fever has you craving both a grand love story and a little self‑preservation, I hope this series gave you permission to want both. You can enjoy the myth, feel the rush, and still choose partners with your whole brain—not just the sneezy, heart‑eyed parts. Before you wander off into the season of new love, share this series with a friend who needs a soulmate reality check… and maybe save it for the next time the pollen—and the feelings—start flying.
Swipe Right on Destiny
If you’ve ever caught spring feelings over a few messages and a half‑decent profile, you’re not alone. The mix of hormones, hope, and algorithm‑blessed matches can make everyone look like destiny. Before you swipe yourself into another ‘we’re soulmates… until we’re not’ story.
Soulmates or Cognitive Bias?
Soulmates or Just Spring Fever?
Psychology Has Entered the Chat.
Every spring, we confuse three things: butterflies, hormones, and “I just know they’re my person.
Psychology calls it destiny vs growth beliefs.
Rom‑coms call it “when you know, you know.”
Your therapist calls it “Let’s unpack that.”
Add in attachment styles + cognitive bias and suddenly every almost‑compatible stranger looks like “The One” with better lighting.
Part 3 of 7 of my new bonus series breaks it all down: why our brains crave soulmates, how Hollywood feeds it, and what to do when your heart and history don’t agree.