I didn’t realize until writing this post how many of my “communication quirks” were actually symptoms of ADHD and OCD. I just thought I was… socially spicy. Turns out the brain has more influence on our words than we give it credit for. If you’ve ever felt broken because you can’t say the “right thing,” you aren’t. You’re human. And your brain is trying its absolute best.

Love, Lies & Scandals is where romance meets reality—with a stiff drink and a side of self-awareness. In When Cupid Meets the Chemistry Set, The Cynical Romantic explores what happens when ADHD, OCD, and celebrity drama collide in the great social experiment we call love. From Howie Mandel’s handshake ban to David Beckham’s color-coded closets, this post reminds us that even the polished and famous are gloriously neurodivergent messes. You’ll laugh, cringe, and maybe recognize yourself in the reflection of someone else’s chaos. Because whether you’re impulsively texting your ex or alphabetizing their cereal boxes, the truth remains: love is equal parts science experiment and dumpster fire. Pull up a chair, grab a donut, and let’s overthink this together.